Sun, sea and white sand. Maids, nannies and cooks. Exotic and luxurious living. Do any of these words evoke an image of life abroad for you? Then I have news for you. That may be expat life for some, but it’s not the reality of life abroad for the majority. But here are ten things that a real life abroad is absolutely not.
1. A holiday
Taking a vacation for a couple of weeks in a country or city is not the same as actually living there indefinitely. Not even close.
2. An Escape From Reality
Life abroad is real life. Your real life. No matter where you live, what country you call home, life is real.
3. A Relocation to Paradise
No matter how wonderful a location looks on paper (or in a travel brochure) you, as a foreigner, have to carve a life out for yourself there. You don’t just walk into paradise and take up residence there – that only happens in movies, and even then it rarely ends well.
4. An Easy Option
People often hear ‘oh lucky you’ as they traipse off to what seems like an exotic location. However, the move is never easy. Culture shock always rears its head, it takes time to find your feet and loneliness will likely be your best friend for a little while when you first relocate. Moving your life abroad is not the easy option. Ever.
5. The Best Way to Start Again
Moving abroad is one way to start start over, but it doesn’t mean it’s the best way. You’re carrying the same personal baggage with you whichever country you call home. Your demons will likely follow you when you move. True, a move may distract you for a while but dealing with your problems and then relocating to a new country is probably a better prescription for moving forward in life.
6. A Sure Fire Way to Find Happiness
You are still you, no matter where you live. A new place might give you the opportunity to look for the things you want in life that you currently don’t have (like a challenge) but moving to a new country isn’t a recipe for instant happiness.
7. Glamorous
8. One Long Adventure
Once you have to earn a living, navigate your way around a foreign health system, sort out the documentation that makes your stay in a country legal, talk to the local tax office, understand a new school system and go searching for meat that actually looks familiar in the local marketplace the sense of living an adventure has well and truly worn off. That’s the reality of life abroad.
9. A Get Rich Quick Scheme
It may seem that expats are rolling in money, wallpapering their house with bank notes and filling their pension schemes with the promise of a care free life once they hit their 60’s. But if you are moving overseas to get rich quickly you may want to rethink your reasons for moving. Expat assignments may be well paid, but often they come at a cost. It’s a rare expat that repatriates a happy millionaire.
10. The Reality of Life Abroad – Never A Waste of Time
When you move abroad you will likely learn a new language, a different way of living; you bathe yourself in a new culture. You learn heaps about yourself as you navigate unexpected hurdles and unimaginable experiences abroad, all without your trusted support network to lean on. The reality of life abroad is that you will probably change irreversibly. A life abroad is never a waste of time.
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